These are merely a few selections that I find highly helpful for a range of concerns and crossroads in life.
Getting Past the Affair
by Douglas Snyder, Donald Baucom, and Kristina Coop Gordon.
http://www.amazon.com/Getting-Past-Affair-Program-Together/dp/157230801X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1289331866&sr=8-1
Spilling Open: The Art of Becoming Yourself
by Sabrina Ward Harrison
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=spilling+over
Healing the Trauma of Abuse: A Woman's Workbook
by Mary Ellen Copeland and Maxine Harris
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=Healing+the+Trauma+of+Abuse
Divorce Poison New and Updated Edition: How to protect your family from bad-mouthing and brainwashing
by Richard Ades Warshak
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&field-keywords=Divorce+Poison